Saturday, December 12, 2015

Living alone, with friends or family?

Nowadays more people are choosing to live with friends or alone rather than with their families. This trend is likely to have a negative impact on communities.  

Let me begin this essay with an important statement. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages,so i will list them all.

First of all, when you live with your family your sibling will always be around you and they will be there for you, they will love you no matter what. You will have less to worry about for example, paying bills, laundry or cooking, but at the same time it is a big disadvantage too. You need to know how to take care of simple things, cause you are not going to live with your mom for the rest of your life.

Now let's discuss possibility of living with friends which is unfortunately not a common thing for our society . When you live with friends it's definitely more fun, you become more independent, you take care of yourself, in the end you will become more mature,but at the same time you live with a friend, you're not alone, and your friend will be there for you like any other family member would, so for now i don't see any disadvantage of living with a friend.

On the other hand living alone is not a bed idea too i mean the only thing that is different is the fact that you will always have that nice quiet place, you will be in charge of everything, no one will make a mess (well except you, but you will clean it up later). And you can have your friends or family around whenever you want.


In the end i want to say, when go to the University and start to work, the best thing to do is to move out and have your one place. Please do not get me wrong i love my family, but most of the time i wonder what would it fell like to be in charge, to be alone. I am an introvert and the best acclivities for me are reading, watching movies or even doing nothing, but i prefer doing all this stuff when i'm alone. I like loud companies actually  i'm the loudest one, i like going out, being with friend, but if someone cancels the planes i am more than fine with it, because staying an home is the best thing in the world. 
So in conclusion i want to say that at first we probably should live with a friend and than alone.